I have a ford fiesta with a manual transmission, and often when I'm driving gently, I'll take more than a second or so to change gear after I depress the clutch pedal. I press the clutch pedal, slowly pull the car out of gear and as I go to put it into the next gear, I'll kind of hold it there, and it will get pulled in by itself (not fully by itself but I'll gently give it some force). I find this quite had to describe, but its almost like the next gear pulls the gearstick in. This generally results in a very smooth gear change with minimal resistance. The only time I get any resistance is when I'm at quite high rpm, say 5-6k and I try to shift to the next gear I'll be fully blocked out until the rpms die.
Othertimes, when I feel like booting my car around or feel like accelerating quickly, I'll perform my gear changes much faster, so clutch in, next gear, clutch out in under a second. When I do this, I feel some resistance before going to the next gear, but since my goal is to shift quickly, the force I'm applying pushes straight through into next gear.
My question is, does the second method of shifting put more wear on my synchro's than the first method?